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If you are a man who is skilled with his hands or perhaps has a really good way of navigating the human body to relieve it of aches and pains, you should definitely consider joining the ranks of male massage in America.

Why You Should Join It

Off the bat, male massage therapists actually make good money out of this occupation. A lot of people actually equate massage therapy as a form of physical therapy. If you get schooled into this, you can actually service clients who really do need steady and constant treatment for their many body conditions. The starting rate for male massage therapy can go as high as sixty dollars an hour; factor in four hours of work each day and you will probably make as much as a regular manager but work fewer hours in a day.

There is also a demand for male massage in America. This is because male massage therapists have a sturdier and deeper touch; thus they are able to dig deeper into stressed-out backs better than female massage therapists who have the tendency to only have a light touch. If you are lucky enough, you might end up being the male massage therapist of sports team. Some who are really good even get recruited to foreign countries and become official therapists of football teams, equestrian teams and the like. As you can see, massage can literally bring you to places you have only dreamed about – which is more than what you can say for other occupations.

How to Get into This

Of course, male massage therapy is not just knowing how to work someone’s back. There is a science to it – something you need to learn in order to truly reap the benefits of this highly regarded occupation. Otherwise, you will just end up as a simple massage therapist in some small spa downtown. To truly rake in the big bucks and live the dream, you should find a school that teaches all about massage therapy. There will be subjects about human biology and anatomy, but none too complicated that it will seem as if you are in medical school. What is important is knowing all the muscles and veins in the different parts of the body, how they affect the various bodily systems and how you can best apply different massage techniques to target specific aches and pains. If you have a certificate, you have a better chance of being commanding your own rate compared to those who just “guessed their way” into massage.

Male massage in America truly is a very rewarding occupation – both financially and intrinsically. Do not be surprised if people start taking a number to get their turn at a massage with you, which is why you should consider concentrating all your efforts into this endeavor. The schooling will be well worth it as soon as you see people really wanting your services. You might even end up becoming the male therapist of celebrities and famous people, too!

Having an open mind means having the willingness to try unconventional things and expecting to learn something or benefit from it in one way – such as male massage. But like many things in the world, not everyone has the proper agenda. For instance, there are some male massage taboos you have to know. Massage may be massage, but you have to know your rights. In the same way, there are also some taboos that the male massage therapists themselves know and should have a right to. Whatever the case, it is important to know these things.

Taboos to Know

On the part of male massage therapists, it is taboo for their customers to be rude to them or to assume the worst of them. First of all, there should not be the notion that all male massage therapists are gay or are into the male sex service business. Some of them are very masculine and treat their jobs as professionally as they can – and as professionally as they are, too. Disrespect or verbal abuse can actually be grounds for a filing of a complaint, which is something a lot of them are wont to do.

Second, make massage taboos on their part also means doing the service they have to – and nothing more. Some sleazebags who expect a “little something” afterwards are going to be in on an unpleasant surprise: coming from a respectable massage institute means knowing the different between a professional job and doing something under the table such as offer sex services in exchange for a bigger pay. If one is looking for that, then one should probably hit the red light districts instead.

Protecting Yourself

There are also some taboos on the part of the client – and if you want to enforce your rights, then you should know this. First, if you feel that the male massage therapist is feeling you up then you should call his attention right away. It is one thing to knead a man’s buttocks (as many back problems can actually be connected to it) but holding it in a weird way could signal that something is up. Second, a male massage therapist is never to let his delicate parts come in contact with any part of your body. If the massage therapist is doing this, heads up: he is performing something that should not be done if he is supposed to provide professional service. And third, if he openly offers additional service then you should know that is not part of the deal. Say no respectfully, pay for the service and let him leave – then never ask to be worked on by that person again. Better yet, look for another company that offers male massage therapy.

Hopefully you will never have to realize or experience firsthand these male massage taboos. At the same time, hopefully the respectful male massage therapists never have to experience it as well. If only both sides can adhere to the standard and treat the other with professionalism and mutual respect, there would not be the problem of under the table discussions or services that are far from what should be offered in the first place.

1.- Read the masseur profile ad completely before calling.

Asking the therapist to describe his massage session or to explain in detail his psychical appearance before reading his massage ad is not always recommended. It’s very important that you let know the massage therapist your expectations and requirements, anyhow it’s also very important you read his massage ad before. Many clients only look at the pictures in the website pages and once they like certain masseur, they have the tendency to call to request information about the massage session without even reading the basic stuff such as location, rate and services provided. Most masseurs explain in detail the services they provide, the hours they work and the way they work. Anyhow, most clients call to ask the same questions.  This can be time consuming for both parts since reading before calling can allow you to get details you want know. Do not get surprise if a masseur tells you that “everything you need to know” is in his massage ad.

2.- Do not ask sexual questions to professional massage therapists that provide therapeutic massage only.

It’s extremely important you read carefully the massage therapist profile you desire to hire before calling him to ask questions. Many masseurs are very open about their massage services and will openly describe if they provide sensual or erotic sessions in their ads. With masseurs offering sensual massage you can feel free to ask them if they provide what you are looking for. Anyhow, you must avoid sending e-mails, text messages or even worst calling professional trained and certified massage therapists to ask if they provide “happy endings”, “releases”, sensual massage or work in the nude. It’s not just rude but can damage the masseur overview of the business. You must know, massage therapists that are certified have studied for long time to become professional masseurs and to work in the erotic side of the massage business compromise their massage licenses and overall reputation. So again: if a masseur is not in the erotic or sensual section of the website or makes clear he provides ONLY therapeutic work, avoid to contact him unless you want a strict therapeutic massage.

3.- “Full services” seekers with low budgets.

There is a huge and increasing number of clients that are looking for the ultimate escort service in the massage websites. No body knows certainly why. Many masseurs work openly as escorts and masseurs at the same time. Whatever they do is their business and remains exclusively between the client and the provider. Anyhow, there is an increasing complaint from masseurs that not provide sexual services that more and more clients are requesting escort services. The most surprising factor is that they request the service for very low rates. Maybe clients have figured out that in times of crisis is better to get a “good deal”. Anyhow we must NOT FORGET, masseurs are people that deserve respect and must be taken seriously. In the first place, requesting sexual services is not O.K. Secondly, trying to get cheap “deals” like if you were buying apples is just unacceptable. If you are looking for escort services you can check www.rentboy.com.

4.- Can you do better? 80 it’s just too expensive!

Gay massage has become so popular in some big metropolitan cities like New York, Miami, San Francisco and Los Angeles that the numbers of massage therapists providing sensual and erotic massage can be overwhelming. In those large cities competition has become high and many masseurs have different marketing plans to attract clients. One of the most common techniques is to simply lower the rates. Anyhow you as a client must understand than asking for additional discounts to a masseur that provides sensual and erotic massage services in the 70 to 100 dollars rate is beyond tacky and low.  If you get educated you probably will learn that most spas or massage business do charge an average of 80 to 200 dollars for a professional strictly therapeutic massage. In those massage business you won’t be able to select your therapist and of course you most likely wont get the sensual treatment you are used to with your independent masseur.  So why to go cheaper when already is so cheap? Our recommendation is to save it up till you have the enough cash to get your erotic massage.

5.- I am 29 years old,  I am hot and a muscular jock… Can you do it for free?

No! No! And No! There is nothing more “rude” and “abusive” than requesting free services because your good looks. Do you ask your waitress to get free food because you are 29 years old and muscular? Would you work for free in your company because your boss has a six pack? Be respectful and show some common sense before approaching a massage therapist with this popular technique. In most cases it does not work. But if you dare to try, at least check in your mirror carefully before you go and see the masseur because he may send you back home if your description is what you dream to look like and not what you actually look.

On July 21, 2010, www.sexymasseur.com was officially launched it.

The male and gay massage directory was finally born after several months of preparation. Sexymasseur.com has been created with the firm goal to become the most influential massage website that carter to men. In it’s first day of being online sexymasseur.com accomplished the goal to have more than 60 masseurs listed from all parts of America. In New York City page, 17 masseurs were all set up and actively looking for new clients.

In www.sexymasseur.com users can choose masseurs that offer from therapeutic massage to erotic bodywork.

The Sexymasseur team  is happy to start a new phase and welcomes users and masseurs as well.

Sexymasseur.com is a large directory of Male Massage and Gay Massage therapists. You can search for masseurs and body workers all across America. We created sexymasseur.com to help you to find the perfect masseur in your city. You can take advantage of our search box at the top of every single page to find your sexy masseur.

Our goal is to make sure that you get the perfect massage session with the masseur you always dreamed of. In order to accomplish that, remember you can read the massage reviews to help your decision on your next man to man massage.